Is there any hope for answers ?? Normall EEG ?? Seizure Like Episodes Occuring!!!

Our journey began in Nov 2012 when we first noticed our 14 year old Daughter may be having seizures and quickly turned into a nightmare.  While out shopping one afternoon It seemed that My Daughter was just ignoring me and wouldn't respond to me when I would address her or ask her a question.  I got aggravated and punished her and told her I did not appreciate her ignoring me and disrespecting me.  She acted as if she was clueless of what I was even talking about which did not make me any happier with her.  I then noticed one day while I was talking to her and she was looking right at me but something wasn't quit right.  She was in like a zoned out in a deep blank stare.  I even waved my hand in her face and she did not respond to the movement.  I kept calling her name and then after a few seconds I noticed her eyes roll back and she would snap out of it and say " Huh, what did you say?"  this happened several times before I witnessed a much larger type of episode take place.  I started to watch her closer and observe her more at all times of the day and one day she just wasn't feeling well.  She told me that she was tired and just feeling bad so I told her to rest and go take a nap.  I too went to my room to take a nap when she came in my room and said "I don't feel good" then her eyes began to twitch, along with her hands and arms jerking then she went into that deep blank stare or unconscious and her whole body then jerked but not violently.  Her eyes glassy and fixed into a deep stare as the eye lids would twitch. She does drool a good bit and choke on saliva which scares me to death being I had suspicions that she was having these type of episodes in her sleep.  This type of episode will last from 3-8 minutes (she has had two that lasted 35+ min) then all the jerking and eye twitching stops she will either go into a deep sleep or cry with a severe headache until she goes into a deep sleep.  If we try to get her communicate she isn't able to do so. Her eyes dance all over the place or go crossed. She cant talk to us or even understand what we are asking her, She has short term memory loss, she is disoriented and confused and very tired and weak.  She will then sleep very hard for several hours to through the night and once awake the next day she will either one be normal just feel tired, weak and sore or two she is not herself and very slow to react and respond, off balanced, short term memory loss and it takes her about a week to fully recover from the episode.  She has had several of these to occur and we have had all kinds of test done from blood work, MRI, EEG, hospital stays, ER visits and we still have no answers and the neurologist has not treated her for seizures.  He actually told us he feels that its not epilepsy and that she may be suffering from a kind of mental disorder to have her evaluated by a mental counselor.   We followed through and done as he asked and that lead to another dead end.  The counselor tested our daughter and she found nothing mentally unstable or wrong with her.  She said she has very good coping skills and she found no signs of any mental illnesses or any reason for her to be having these kind of episodes.  The counselor wrote a letter to the neurologist asking that he dig deeper and reevaluate her from a medical point of view not a mental case. Has anyone else experienced this kind of episodes have a bunch of test ran and they all seem to be normal but your having these seizures?  Are they really seizures?  I know My Daughter and I know what I witness is REAL!! I just don't understand why she continues to suffer from them and the Doctors don't see any harm in them occurring or do anything to get them under control.  My fear of them happening in he sleep was confirmed just last night.  I finally witness her go into one while sleeping.  She was napping next to me on the couch and I felt her jerk.  This sudden Jerk happened about 3 more times so I started looking her over and I seen her eyes closed but they were dancing all over the place and her lids began to twitch.  Then the upper body and soon to follow lower body jerking began. This lasted for 8 min then it just stopped and she remained asleep.  I waited about 15 min then I tried to wake her up but she did not respond.  I waited another two min and tried again and this time she opened her eyes but she could not focus them at all. They were going crossed and she was not coherent and non responsive. She could not control her body movements, sit up or walk or talk.  She had tears running down her check and she would grunt if asked a question as if she could hear us but she just couldn't get her body to work and respond.  This lasted for about a hour and a half then she drifted back off to sleep and slept through the night and today she has done nothing but slept. She is off balance and dizzy along with being very weak and tired.  She is able to talk and communicate but doesn't unless we address her first.  You can see she just isn't feeling so swift and it kills me to watch her go through this and we cant seem to get any answers or treatment for her.  Has anyone taken all the test and they all appear normal but you still have these episodes occur? Has anyone been told its not epilepsy its a mental disorder or a trauma that your not aware of?  Looking for answers and any information anyone can share with Us...

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