Hi! I'm kind of new to the whole epilepsy world. My fiancee has had seizures for the last 5 almost 6 years. He went for nearly 2 years without them, but then had a couple in the last year. I feel overwhelmed as I have my own health challenges, but I love him and want to learn how to better support him without draining myself. So, how do i support him? Is there any hope for things to get better? Is being grumpy and pessimistic normal? Those with epilepsy, what is it you wish your partners knew? Those whose spouses have epilepsy, what are some tricks/ tips you have for me?