Post Seizure activity question.

New here, so Hello! Ok, my wife was diagnosed with epilepsy between 5-6 years ago. She is 36. But what I'm curious about is post-seizure activity. How she wakes up or comes too after a Gran Mal. She has both Focals and GM seizures. After a seizure when she starts to come too, she can sometimes act like a jack in the box and will spring up, "not standing, just attempting to sit up", her arms will flail for a second and she is confused, panicked etc. I have been hit so many times as well as our daughter or other people when she comes too. But even after this state she still is not fully aware it's slow but she comes to being more aware and cognitive after. She is super tired and wants to sleep for the most part or is really slow. So her timeline of things is: Seizure "nonfocal"-lethargic for a few seconds to a minute--springs to life but unaware, confused and her arms will swing up--then calms down into a more relaxed confused state with attempts to get up or move--confused sometimes a emotional state--then aware, but slow, and most times sleepy. Just curious if other people have seen this or what do they do?