Pregnant and On Dilatin please read all

Ok well i dont know if you all remember me but this is kinda my story, when i became prego with my now 2 1/2 year old daughter i started having seizures and was told i have epilepsy. Well this past june i had 3 bad seizures in a row, i have gran mal seizures, well they did a cat scan and found what they thought was a cyst and well sent me to a nerologist who told me it was tumor who sent me to a nerosurgen, so july 27th i had surgery to have this tumor removed and i was told that because were this was located that there was a 75 percent chance that there would be no more seizures and that eventually they would bring me down of my meds. Well i decided to stop my meds my self. I been off my meds for 2 months and this last monday my daughter took a pic of me with a flash and i thought that it triggered something because it caused a seizure well i get a aura first so we called 911 and they got there and i got down into the ambulance and thats were i had my seizure and next thing i know i am waking up in the icu at the hospital to doctors asking me if i knew i was pregnant and no i didnt know but i am happy and excited but of course scared and nervouse and have a feeling that because the change it causes in my body that this is what triggered the seizure i dont know though but i thought that dilatin was the worst anti seizure med to be on when you are pregnant ? some one help me out please Fawn