Simple partial seizure (maybe?) I want to know if anyone else out there understands what I'm going through

About 4 months ago, after going through numerous doctors, I finally found a doctor that listened and believed me when I said that I had epilepsy. However, he is still on the fence about it. Because of the fact that the 24 hour eeg that we did just happened to fall on a day where I felt no symptoms, he decided that he is still 60% sure its simple partial seizure and 40% sure its migraine without the headache (which I know is not true). The reason he is so hesitant about this is because my auras happen almost everyday, but they could last up to 5-10 hours at a time. I can have the symptoms for hours without ever ending up having a seizure, or I can have the symtoms for a few hours and then one more trigger happens that causes a seizure to occur. By these I mean for 5-10 hours I have symptoms that include shallow breathing; heat flashes;sometimes my stomach drops like when you go on a roller coaster; tremors; muscle spasms/twitching; ringing in the ears; shallow breathing; de ja vu; disorientation or what feels like an altered perception of reality meaning I feel like i am not all there mentally, I feel like I am in a dream and my mental processing is very slow. This all brings about intense fear and sometimes i think I see things that are not really there; my anxiety heightens. *the actual seizure: if all of this continues, it eventually leads to what I think (know) is the actual seizure. the simple partial seizure i something that no one around me notices because it only lasts 1 or 2 seconds. However, my vision goes black and it feels as if someone is shining a strobe light through my closed eyelids. Also, it feels as though my head and upper body starts to convulse, even though it doesn't. Now I am just going to give information about my epilepsy and I really hope people can reach out and share similar stories to help me not to feel so crazy. situations that sometimes trigger symptoms, but mostly triggers seizure most likely to occur: -car rides where the light flashes in and our of the car -any situation where a bright light is flashing on and off, such as a fire alarm, strobe light, or T.V. show -looking at objects that have striped or checkered pattern/design -being outside when its too bright -being in any type of shopping mall, store etc. I cannot shop because i almost always have a seizure. example: -the example i am about to mention is what I feel extremely often. Before the medication, it happened two or three times a week. -driving on the highway on a sunny day but there were many trees. the sun was going in and out created a somewhat strobe light effect. This created a sort of strobe light, with the sun shining in and out of the window multiple times a second. All of a sudden I felt as though my heart jumped. I felt a sensation from my head down. It was a sensation hard to explain, kind of like a tingling feeling or like all my blood dropped down and out of my head, as if I could feel my head being deflated. I felt my neck stiffen up. My eyes closed involuntarily because I don’t remember seeing anything but black. But it was not just black, it was like I was staring at a strobe light. After the tingling sensation, I felt my neck kind of stiffen and head start to jerk. I snapped out of it very fast, no one even noticed it happened. It probably lasted 2 or 3 seconds. I was aware of what had just happened because I remember being really anxious about it and scared that it would happen again, except more extreme the next time. I remember being extremely out of it afterward, like my mind was fuzzy and I was living in a dream. Afterward and before, the more light I was exposed to, the more uneasy I felt. I had to put my sunglasses on to block the bright sun. That was not enough though, I still felt like there was a risk it would happen again. I had to put my hands over my eyes the rest of the ride to block all light from my eyes. -the most extreme example happened when my symptoms were heightened to the absolute max. this was before I had ever seen a doctor for this stuff. However, my symptoms were really bad and I was having the simple partial seizures all day that I was trying to ignore. however I was dehydrated, sleep deprived, hungover, etc. The symptoms were increasingly worse, the simple partial seizures were still occurring, and at one point I was looking out the window of the car and remember shouting "oh no oh no oh no" and i guess I started convulsing for about 30-45 seconds. I had a grand mal seizure. I have never heard of anyone who can relate to this. please tell me there is someone out there who does, or has any advice on what may be happened.